April Birthdays

30 04 2012

On April 21st, we celebrated all three April babies in the family. It was a warm, sunny day. Everyone showed up around four for a barbecue outside. The kids ran around the yard, alternately giggling and fighting. The adults enjoyed the sun on the deck, alternately enjoying the giggling and breaking up the fighting.

Soon the kids can decide their own birthday menu. But for now mama decides. This year we did hamburgers, hot dogs, chips, baked beans, and fruit salad. It felt like summertime.

What’s that? You want to know the secret to my amazing cupcake decorating skills? Well, I’m afraid I can’t share those. It has taken me years to develop. I have now perfected the stick to the pan, fall apart tops, messy frosting, with cupcake crumb look. Really, it’s an art. Just stick with it, and I’m sure you’ll be as good as I am someday.

1-year old Conor didn’t care how they looked. Dig in, buddy! Love those blue eyes.

Jellybean cupcakes for the 4-year old Elly Bean.

I love this picture of 2-year old Evan. Dirty fingers, Thomas train, and smooshed cupcake. Whoever defined boys as “noise with dirt on it” was onto something.

Gift time! And chaos ensues.

It was a fun afternoon, celebrating three great kids.





Four Year Old Elly

29 04 2012

Elly arrived on the scene four years ago (she was one week old in this picture). Four years?! As Elly would now say, “How is that possible?” I’ll spare you the sentimental parent reminiscing about how it seems like just yesterday. It doesn’t feel like yesterday, but it definitely doesn’t feel like a whopping four years have passed.

She made us parents and has taught us more about joy and patience and love and laughter and Thomas the Tank Engine than I thought we had the capacity to learn. I am so thankful that this bright, spunky, sweet, smart little girl is ours. Elly Bean, thanks for everything.

The other day, I asked our big girl a set of 22 questions (Thanks for the idea, Pinterest). I noted her four year old answers and plan to ask her the identical questions each birthday. All the words are her own, without prompting; my words are in brackets.

1. What is your favorite color? Purple and blue and green. They’re just so pretty.

2. What is your favorite toy? Trains. The little kind of trains I like. I love them, Mama.

3. What is your favorite fruit? Pineapple.

4. What is your favorite movie? Thomas [the Tank Engine].

5. What is your favorite thing to eat for lunch? Cupcakes.

6. What is your favorite thing to wear? Shorts.

7. What is your favorite game? Huckle is the game I like. [Busytown board game]

8. What is your favorite snack? Graham crackers.

9. What is your favorite animal? Doggies and cats.

10. What is your favorite song? Jimmy Crack Corn and I Don’t Care

11. What is your favorite book? The lion book that somebody gave me. [The Lion and the Mouse from the Villers].

12. Who is your best friend? Bridger.

13. What is your favorite kind of cereal? Cheerios.

14. What is your favorite thing to do outside? Play in [Papa & Grandma’s] the Pretending House.

15. What is your favorite drink? Apple juice.

16. What is your favorite holiday? Easter and Christmas. Those are my favorite that I really like and really love.

17. What do you like to take to bed with you? All my buddies. That is alot. Sixty-one hundred, I think.

18. What do you like about Evan? That he loves me and follows me around.

19. What do you like about Mommy? Anything. I just love to hug her and kiss her.

20. What do you like about Daddy? I like to hug and kiss him.

21. What do you want to be when you’re all grown up? A elephant.

22. What do you like about being four? I like to open birthday presents. I love cupcakes.

Happy Birthday, Elly!





Mud and Tulips and More Mud

27 04 2012

Last week, Heidi, Elizabeth, and I took the kids on our annual trek to the Wooden Shoe tulip garden. The kids, of course, don’t care much about tulips. The moms appreciate the beauty while chasing kids and wiping noses and passing out snacks. Hey, it works.

Oh, and Elly can now identify tulips so I suppose she noticed more than I thought [as usual].

Elly and Evan could have happily stayed in this spot all day. They are both big fans of Bob the Builder. It is common to hear Elly rattling off things like, “Can we fix it? Yes, we can! I think we can!” while working on various jobs (The other day it was while were were outside weeding).

Sweet little Tulips and how they grow: 2009, 2010, and 2011.

Elly and Evan rode in Oreo and Cookie for the trip around the tulip fields.

While the kids were bumping through the rutted field on their little cow ride, I jumped through rows of tulips snapping pictures. I managed to get lots of mediocre pictures, but I didn’t roll my ankle on the mounded beds so I will just consider that a success.

I am so happy I get to be Mom to these two.

Tulips? What tulips? Mud puddles!!

Once started, it couldn’t be stopped. The kids jumped in each and every mud puddle we met. We led our dirty little band from one end of the field to the other, passing many perfectly dressed children waiting for their Kodak moments. I’m sure those kids had a good time, but seriously, how do you compete with good ol’ fashioned mud?

The kids spent a good amount of time racing back and forth around these gigantic tires.

The [very muddy] end.





Helping & Playing

26 04 2012

Anytime Elly and Evan know Papa and Grandma are outside working in the yard or garden, they race out to “help.”

Here they are, Evan in his pajamas and Elly in her church dress, carefully packing down Papa’s newly tilled rows. Very helpful, I’m sure.

I can remember doing the same thing, preferably barefoot, when I was a kid. I loved the feeling of the cool, soft soil right after my dad tilled it. It is pretty amazing to watch our kids doing the same things in the same places with the same people that I used to do.

My dad has been putting in lots of hours to get the garden ready.

With his faithful helpers, of course.

I love this sweet, squinty-eyed baby.

Ty flew out to visit for a few days. Supposedly, he came to check out his new school. We all knew the truth, though. He came to spend countless hours with his seven cousins under the age of six. The kids adored him, and he was so good with them.

What a guy. We sure are happy that the whole V family is moving closer. I’m pretty sure Tyler, Tommi, or Levi are planning to stay with us every weekend. Right, guys? Hello? Wait… I was kidding. Every other?





Easter Sunday

15 04 2012

Elly knew the Easter story backwards and forwards this year. She heard it many, many times from us and her teachers at church, and it was fun to hear her tell it back to us in her own words. When I picked her up from class after my mom’s group, the teacher said, “Elly deserves a reward for how well she knew the Easter story!” (Which I’m pretty sure is code for, “Your kid kept interrupting the teacher during storytime.” Oh well. At least she was listening!)

Anyway, it is exciting to watch her understanding develop. The more I get to know Elly, the more I understand why Jesus is so crazy about kids. Their faith is so sure and simple. They understand and accept truth without complicating the message.

That being said, the longer I am a believer, the more I am humbled by the Easter message, and the more I come to appreciate Jesus’ life, death, and resurrection.

On Saturday night, Elly and I dyed eggs. She was so excited that she could hardly wait long enough for me to boil the eggs. I am a big fan of doing simple, fun activities like this even though they have no meaningful connection to the holiday we celebrate. I think it’s important to teach our children the difference between worship and celebration. Some things are meaningful and some things are just silly. Both can be good.

She was very careful. We each broke one egg.

Beautiful eggs, which always bring to mind the colorful post-Easter egg salad sandwiches of my childhood.

Warning: extreme cuteness to follow…

Ed’s mom sent them some fancy new duds this year. They were so excited when they opened their packages. They both insisted on trying them on right away. Elly loved her dress with the “rose garden in front” and Evan walked around patting his tie to make sure everyone noticed.

They wore these to church. It was fun to look in Elly’s classroom and see all the little girls in bright dresses and the boys in collared shirts.

After church, we had a bunch of family and friends (Adam, Tracy, and the A family) over for Easter brunch.

Elizabeth filled and Ed hid a bunch of plastic eggs. The weather was warm, and the kids had a great time searching the yard for them.

Here’s 6 of the 9 kids.

Everyone brought something to share, and it was quite the feast as usual. Beef roast, spiral ham, lamb sausages, brussel sprouts, fruit salad, roasted asparagus, deviled eggs, potato salad, homemade bread, and vanilla cupcakes. Yum.

I barely caught this moment so it’s a bit blurry, but I love this shot showing Elly giving her great-grandma an unprompted hug and kiss.

Heidi and Dave stuck around after everyone left, and the kids had a blast getting dirty and playing in the garden.

Papa found them some old toothbrushes, which they used to “paint” his raised bed a lovely shade of mud brown. They were all very diligent to the task and very dirty when they finished.

Our kids were stripped and plunked straight in the tub after everyone left. After a few YouTube videos with grandma, it was an early bedtime for two exhausted kiddos.

What a fun day of worship and celebration. Happy Easter!





Elly + Evan

13 04 2012

In honor of their birth month, and because they are so stinking cute… I am posting a bunch of pictures of Elly and Evan for your viewing (and my remembering) pleasure.

I love watching these two grow up together. This month, they started actually playing with eachother, instead of just near eachother.

Evan adores his sister, happy to trip along behind her and go along with whatever scheme she dreams up. He still doesn’t say much you can actually understand, but he is very quick to let us know when his rights have been violated.

Elly is a great big sister, gibberish translator, and substitute mom to Evan. She loves telling him what to do and telling me when he does not do it. Most of the time, though, she is kind and loving with him.

They still squabble and squawk with the best of them, but for the most part they are good little buddies.

I can think of few things I love more than watching my kids show umprompted love to eachother.

It makes me feel like we’re doing something right.





Marching Along

13 04 2012

Spring is such a crazy time of year. I wish that I had taken a picture each morning, because all 31 days of March would have looked totally different. In any given week (or day… or hour), we had some combination of sleet, snow, hail, sun, rain, and blue sky.

I love spring, though, crazy weather and all. The clean, green brightness of everything makes me feel alive again and inspires me to accomplish great things. Or scrub toilets. Whichever comes first.

Snow! Hey, it’s a big deal to us temperate-climate valley floor folks.

We got two days of snow in March that actually stuck around long enough to merit digging up snow gear and playing outside. Ok, so snow gear might be stretching it a bit. Both kids wore their pajamas under winter coats. Elly wore her rain boots, and Evan wore Elly’s old shoes. But it worked.

We threw snowballs and chased eachother and built a big snowman. In fact, I nearly threw my back out heaving the snowman’s middle section into place. But it was totally worth it to see Elly’s huge grin when we finished. Although she is still a little confused as to why snowmen have carrots for noses.

We played outside until cheeks were pink, fingers were frozen, and kids were hungry.

David and Anna called us one night to let us know they’d be stuck at the PDX airport for a long layover on their way from Mexico to Alaska the next night. We’d already scheduled our house inspection for that time, but it ended up working out just fine. My parents were watching Elly and Evan so we headed straight from the inspection to the airport. We picked up David and Anna outside the airport and took them to a local restaurant for dinner.

I couldn’t really tell, but I think they still like each other.

After dinner, the boys arm wrestled to determine who would be picking up the check. I won’t embarass David by telling you who lost.

The kids have loved this warmer weather. Evan loves to dig, often walking around the yard with every suitable digging device he can find. We also ride bikes up and down the driveway, and Elly is riding her little Boot Scoot bike like a pro now.

Elly helping Papa plant seeds.





March Madness: Christian Rock Version

23 03 2012

March definitely came roaring in like a lion this year.

Ed and I kicked the month off by going to The Rock and Worship Roadshow, compliments of some free tickets from his supervisor. We hadn’t even heard of it and had no clue what we were getting ourselves into. We arrived at the Rose Garden Arena early, but it was already packed out with the under-18 crowd. We made our way up flights of stairs until we reached the nosebleed section at the top. After squeezing ourselves between packs of awkward teenagers, we put our ear plugs in and waited for the show to start. Oh yeah, we can do awkward, too. Rumor had it, things were going to get loud. I love it when Ed plans ahead at strategic moments.

First up was Sidewalk Prophets. I guess their short set was supposed to get the crowd warmed up. Sadly, Ed and I could barely remember what to do at a concert, let alone a rock concert. It didn’t help that we were up so high, I felt like if I stood up and leaned forward I would topple to the lower level of the Rose Garden.

I tried not to imagine my comfortable yoga pants and good book sitting at home and just enjoy the show.

Next up: Disciple! Nope, we’d never heard of them either. They were good at flipping their hair, jumping off the speakers, and screaming really loud. It was impressive, but we couldn’t understand a word they were saying.

Then Hawk Nelson took the stage. Again, loud. And again, I could not understand the lyrics. At this point we were starting to feel like we had morphed into our parents. We kept laughing every time a singer would yell, “We just want tonight to be about Jesus!” Then use words we can understand, people!

When they announced that Lecrae would be up next, the crowd went wild. Apparently, he’s a big deal. Who knew? I actually really liked him. He came across as incredibly humble and genuine. I’m thinking I definitely need some Lecrae on my run playlist.

Next was Tenth Avenue North. Finally, a band we recognized! We stayed for a few of their songs and enjoyed them. I especially liked the song, Strong Enough to Save. At this point, we’d been rocked for three hours and had hit our limit. We yelled at eachother that we were ready to leave and tripped our way out of there.

We didn’t even stick around to hear Mercy Me, the headline act. It’s not like we didn’t see them, though. The Mercy Me members took turns coming onstage in between each band to talk about cds and t-shirts and radio stations and cruises and child sponsorship and Grand Canyon University. But I’m getting distracted. It was all about Jesus, after all.

So, Ed and I happily headed out, hand in hand. We realized two things that night: 1) We are getting old and 2) We need chocolate (and Jesus, but preferably not at rock concerts). We can’t do much about number one, but number two? We covered that. Off to Papa Haydn’s for a late night of chocolate and conversation. Best part of the night.





Fast February

19 03 2012

I figured it’s time to pay some attention to my poor neglected blog. So, here’s February:

Last year, I bought a Groupon for a glass blowing class in Portland. I thought it’d be a fun birthday surprise to do with Ed. We took off to Gearhart instead, so the voucher sat until we had a chance to use it in February.

Ed and I spent an hour with a glass blowing dude who walked us through the steps to make 2 glasses and 2 paperweights. I have no idea what to do with paperweights. For all those times when I’m paying bills in a heavy windstorm? They look pretty, though, so their place in our house is safe.

It was a fun morning and amazing to see what you can do with heat and glass!

Lance flew out for a weekend and was able to squeeze us into his very busy schedule. We went to a basketball game, had breakfast at Bob’s Red Mill, and went on a cold, windy hike on Powell Butte.

Despite the wind, it was a beautiful day with great panoramic views.

The kids preferred this view, though.

Bundled up boys peeking out.

Elly has fallen in love with building things: Legos, gumdrops & toothpicks, cardboard, and sticks are all fair game.

Evan still lists his Auntie Piper high on his Top-5 People List.

Hanging out with the sweetest-ever, Baby Kate. Elly and Evan adore her.

I follow the blog, Young House Love by John and Sherry Petersik, which details their home DIY adventures. When I heard they were coming to the Portland Home & Garden Show, I was interested in meeting them. However, I knew their blogging seminar was an invite-only event so I didn’t even bother looking into it. Out of curiosity, I checked it out the weekend before the H&G Show. They had opened the seminar up to other area bloggers, but it closed 2 days before I found out. Ack! I was so bummed. Anyway, long story short, I squeaked in to the 25ish person seminar and enjoyed every minute of it.

Along with our friends Tone and Rebecca and their kids, we took our kids and Bridger to see the Model Train Show at the Convention Center. It was packed with people who loved building and running and watching model trains. My favorites were the huge Lego towns, a carryover dream from childhood.

Elly is still interested in trains, and Evan has definitely inherited the obsession.

The Gibson crew made it past this section, but our little tribe was instantly sucked into this crowded kids play area.

February really did fly by quickly, and this was even a leap year!





Just January

9 02 2012

January is always the slowest month for us, hence the single post. We go into our winter hibernation this time of year, with lots of slow days and quiet nights at home. While I like focusing on our little family and slowing down after the crazy pace of the holidays, January is by far my least favorite month on the calendar. It feels like those frustrating dreams where you can’t really wake up or get moving. Vitamin D deficiency?

So, even though my favorite part of January is midnight on the 31st, here are a few of the month’s highlights:

I enrolled Elly in swimming lessons, joining her buddy Bridger, two afternoons a week. She was so excited for the first class so I figured she was going to do well. Instead, she shook her head and refused to do anything more than sit on the side of the pool.

We talked on the drive home about being brave and trying new things and doing what your teacher asks you to do. But, when it really came down to it, it was a roll of Lifesavers (Elly called them Lifeguards. Ha!) that did the trick. Who needs motivational speeches when good ol’ fashioned bribery works so well? 

From class #2 forward, she happily did everything Teacher Mary (whom she adored) asked, except for putting her face in the water. She loved her class & her teacher. Overall, a very positive experience.

The two goofballs.

As always, January was mostly gray and rainy. We had a few snow days and a handful of sunny ones. The snow didn’t stick around to enjoy, but we took advantage of every sliver of sunshine.

In other news…

We are still waiting to hear back from the bank on the short sale offer we made back in November. Our realtor sends us listings, but so far we haven’t been tempted to see anything else. I lost count around 75, but we’ve looked at a ton of houses. If something better were to come on the market, we’d definitely jump on it, but so far we are really happy with the short sale house. Now we are just hoping the bank has good news for us…. whenever they get around to looking at our offer.

Ed has been putting in lots of overtime. It definitely makes our shorter weekends fly by, but we are so thankful for the steady, increased work. When he is home, he is hugging his wife, playing with the kiddos, cutting pop cans for his next solar scheme, or burning piles of wet branches.

I still spend a lot of my time in the kitchen, but I didn’t make a single dessert for the entire month of January. That was our resolution for the month, and it actually felt great. I am also moving our family away from pre-packaged, processed food, opting to cut it out or make it from scratch instead. Starting this year, I am not going to buy any more cereal or crackers . To prove what a homemaking nerd I am, I just got really excited by that last sentence. Seriously, I should get out more.

Ed and I have also been doing B90x together, reading through the Bible in 90 days. This is Ed’s second time and my first. So far, it has been a great challenge. I loved reading through Genesis in four days. You really get a different perspective when you read 10-15 chapters at a time. And yes, we are both behind but determined to finish on time.

Elly keeps us laughing on a daily basis with the funny things she says. She definitely has her dad’s memory skills, surprising us with the facts and memories she whips out all the time. She loves reading books, doing puzzles, and [pre] ’tending with dress up clothes and a never ending assortment of random props. She is a great helper and big sister.

Evan can say Mama, Dadda, Papa, and Grandma. He knows the signs for more, all done, and thank you. When these things fail, he resorts to screeching, squawking, and grunting. He loves anything that has wheels on it. Brrrrooom, brrrrooom. He also digs Thomas the Tank Engine and Lowly Worm, just like Elly at this age. Funny kids.

Bam! January is over.